Fear is the enemy of a person. Anderson always tells me “Fear itself isn’t the problem, it’s okay to be afraid. It’s not okay when you allow your fear to control you.”
Let me fill everyone in on a weakness of mine, a big one.
I am a very fearful person. Yeah, very!
2 nights ago I had a very interesting dream. I’m not one to normally share my dreams like that so publicly. But this one caught my attention.
The dream started with me being surrounded by a group of 10-15 people. We were all on a hiking trail. Ahead of us I see a man leading the way.
We got deeper into the path and he started presenting me, my past.
I saw scenes of different people that hurt me emotionally and physically throughout my life. I realized at that moment that throughout my life I let these peoples negative comments get to me, so much to the point of allowing fear to truly grow in my heart and thoughts.
As I kept walking this man began to take the group through several obstacles. It was finally my turn, and what do you know? I was scared. Yeah..
This man told me I needed to jump over a cliff onto a pointy rock in order to finally jump on another batch of rocks that were piled up one on top of the other and balance myself.
I thought “This guy must be crazy! No way in heavens am I doing that!”
(The picture sums up how I felt lol)
He looked at me with a peaceful smile and said “Trust me..”
Something about this man gave me peace and I didn’t even hesitate, so I jumped!
I got on the pointy rock and finally got on the batch of rocks. I began to balance myself and this man told me to lay down on the rocks, close my eyes and in the count of 3 to open them.
I did.
When I opened my eyes I saw the most beautiful scenery. Makes my eyes water just imagining the picture in my head. He asked me “How do you feel?”
I answered “Peaceful, happy, accomplished, like I can do anything!”
At that moment I looked down and saw I was really high up! I started freaking out! The rocks started moving around!
He yelled “Don’t let fear in! Balance yourself! That’s the only way for you to stay alive!”
I got as still as I could and finally the rocks got still. And then I woke up. Looked over and saw my kitten between Anderson and I. My husband peacefully sleeping and my other cat to my right side sleeping. I started meditating on the dream.
I bet everyone guessed by now who that man was. Funny thing is I don’t remember his face, I just remember how his character fit in perfectly with Jesus’s. Kind, loving, peaceful, a great teacher, patient.
As the day progressed I kept putting the pieces together. Last week I was getting attacked with thoughts of fear. I was beginning to feel anxious, scared, worried for simple little things. I was even beginning to break out a lot! This wasn’t like me. I was a hot mess. I remember telling God one day “Just show me something, anything, please…”
God showed me that I first need to forgive anyone who’s said anything negative to me as I was growing up and to not determine who I am based on what people say or think. Ever!
He showed me I needed to trust more in Him. That I was going to continue to have to face fear but I can’t let it get in the way of the things I want to do for Him. To push myself and I will and can accomplish anything I set my mind to.
And lastly to live a balanced life.
Talk about a life lesson in one night! And I didn’t need to pay a therapist. All free people! All free..
I choose to not let fear control me. Meditate today “What things do I feel sometimes control me?“